This tool was designed for you, whoever you are, to spend some time getting to know yourself as a date, figure out where you're at, and reflect on what you'd like to be calling in. Take your time with it, don’t share it with anyone if you don’t want to, and let it be a resource to come back to over and over again. Scratch things out, change your mind, answer “I don’t know” if you don’t know the answer, and get super ridiculously, brutally honest - it’s yours, it’s okay! No one’s grading it.